Welcome to the Monkey House

November 24, 2019

I wandered deep into Topanga on Saturday and emerged, at days end, a different person.…

Black Smoke. White Smoke.

November 18, 2019

Two key questions: are the Santa Ana’s blowing and what color is the smoke? If…

Fret Not

November 3, 2019

Was at an orchestra concert the other day watching my favorite cellist and noticed that…

Thirteen

October 24, 2019

Backpack half zipped on the kitchen table,Beat up paperback Fahrenheit 451 in the side pocket,Simpsons…

Deadicated 6.16.18

June 25, 2018

FADE IN Citi Field.  General Admission. Three rows back from the stage. The crowd dances,…

Divine Intervention

June 20, 2018

So here I am driving down the road, reeling from an earlier conversation, trying to…

Luggage or leverage?

June 3, 2018

One step back…WTF? These freaking voices in my head… So, the other day, I am…

Year of the Rabbit

May 1, 2018

"What year?" Vince asks. "1963." I say with a certain amount of pride. "Huh, year…

Oh, my…

April 15, 2018

Went to Supercuts on Saturday: to the usual one over on 18th and Wilshire.  All…

Learning to fly

March 18, 2018

  Took flight again today at Pranayama Breathe Class on a Sunday afternoon. I visited…

Squeak!

February 24, 2018

Squeak. Step. Squeak. Step. Squeak. Pause. Stop. Pause. Step. Squeak. Humph… My favorite shoes are…

#leftearrightear

February 14, 2018

  FADE IN. EXT: DAD comes into focus, a big guy, burley, mid-thirties, Oklahoma t-shirt,…

Have and Have Nots

February 6, 2018

I am struggling a bit.   A few days ago I woke up pre-dawn, made a…

I don’t know, it just

January 15, 2018

drives me crazy that people don’t really greet each other anymore. I’m not sure why…

Turn the tables

August 31, 2017

I have a coach that helps me navigate the training regime for all of these…

385 in dog years…

August 6, 2017

I am getting old. I’m almost 385 in dog years. Humph… The other day I…

And he lives in Nashville. Went there recently to reconnect and discovered a whole new…

Owling

July 24, 2017

Went owling with Vince the other night. We have a big tree in the backyard…

Coco and Adele

July 23, 2017

One afternoon in the Marais (how cool is that for an opening line?) Teri and…

Merci Madame Killelay

July 19, 2017

One of my favorite teachers, Madame Killlelay, taught high school French. I think she tops…

Nice is nice (PG13)

July 13, 2017

Was a hot day in Nice. I had some down time before the flight back…

Comrades in arms…

July 10, 2017

And legs. And mind, body and spirit. Just whisper “Kowies, Fields, Bothas, Inchanga or Polly…

Triple death by…

July 7, 2017

Seriously? It’s Saturday morning. I mean what kind of message is that suppose to send…

Wump-Wump-Wump

July 6, 2017

Thursday afternoon Dad via text: “send a pic people here want to see” Dad’s internal…

La Decima

July 5, 2017

He’s a god, a modern day god, like Zeus with a tennis racket. And we…

One afternoon in the Marais (how cool is that for an opening line?) Teri and Vince were tired from a hectic morning of sightseeing so Adele and I set off to do the father daughter thing. You would think a 15 year old would hide under the bed when her dad suggested shopping but not Adele, she was game from the get go.   Turns out it was just one of those moments: when the heat of the day was starting to die down, the city was bustling, streets were crowded but manageable, and cafes were starting to fill. It was the perfect time to set off for adventure. This time we were in search of make up: something about eye shadow or maybe eye pencils? Still not exactly sure, didn’t matter, I was focused on the journey not the destination.  Fathers and daughter and all.

Anyway, that’s how we ended up in the Chanel store trying on eyeliner. Kid you not, they have this crazy app that lets you digitally try on stuff. It’s really cool. Until you realize that one minute you are looking at your fifteen year old and the next thing you know the young lady looking back at you could pass for twenty-five.   And then you realize she will be twenty-five in no time.   And then you think to yourself, but wait, she’s my little girl, still my little girl and that you aren’t ready for her to be twenty-five or even fifteen for that matter. Luckily digital mascara doesn’t run when you tear up…

This conversation runs though my head as Adele digitally flips through eye shadows, liners, lashes and highlights, pushing boundaries, experimenting with different looks, adding and subtracting years without a second thought. It takes a while, then finally she stops, glances up and says, “Hey Dad, check it out!” I turn and look at the digital image of a beautiful, sophisticated, worldly, powerful, fifteen year old on the cusp of stepping out and fully embracing life on her own terms.

“There’s a reason Chanel is Chanel.” Is about all I can muster as I come out of my internal conversation and into the real world. She laughs, fines the smallest sample she can then nervously glances at the price tag. “We’ll split it,” I offer up,“remember, when in Paris.” And before she can answer we find ourselves back out on the street, peeping into shop windows, eating ice cream before dinner, and swinging a little Chanel bag side to side. Swinging it not so much that others notice, but just enough so we both know its there…

Onward->

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