Welcome to the Monkey House

November 24, 2019

I wandered deep into Topanga on Saturday and emerged, at days end, a different person.…

Black Smoke. White Smoke.

November 18, 2019

Two key questions: are the Santa Ana’s blowing and what color is the smoke? If…

Fret Not

November 3, 2019

Was at an orchestra concert the other day watching my favorite cellist and noticed that…

Thirteen

October 24, 2019

Backpack half zipped on the kitchen table,Beat up paperback Fahrenheit 451 in the side pocket,Simpsons…

Deadicated 6.16.18

June 25, 2018

FADE IN Citi Field.  General Admission. Three rows back from the stage. The crowd dances,…

Divine Intervention

June 20, 2018

So here I am driving down the road, reeling from an earlier conversation, trying to…

Luggage or leverage?

June 3, 2018

One step back…WTF? These freaking voices in my head… So, the other day, I am…

Year of the Rabbit

May 1, 2018

"What year?" Vince asks. "1963." I say with a certain amount of pride. "Huh, year…

Oh, my…

April 15, 2018

Went to Supercuts on Saturday: to the usual one over on 18th and Wilshire.  All…

Learning to fly

March 18, 2018

  Took flight again today at Pranayama Breathe Class on a Sunday afternoon. I visited…

Squeak!

February 24, 2018

Squeak. Step. Squeak. Step. Squeak. Pause. Stop. Pause. Step. Squeak. Humph… My favorite shoes are…

#leftearrightear

February 14, 2018

  FADE IN. EXT: DAD comes into focus, a big guy, burley, mid-thirties, Oklahoma t-shirt,…

Have and Have Nots

February 6, 2018

I am struggling a bit.   A few days ago I woke up pre-dawn, made a…

I don’t know, it just

January 15, 2018

drives me crazy that people don’t really greet each other anymore. I’m not sure why…

Turn the tables

August 31, 2017

I have a coach that helps me navigate the training regime for all of these…

385 in dog years…

August 6, 2017

I am getting old. I’m almost 385 in dog years. Humph… The other day I…

And he lives in Nashville. Went there recently to reconnect and discovered a whole new…

Owling

July 24, 2017

Went owling with Vince the other night. We have a big tree in the backyard…

Coco and Adele

July 23, 2017

One afternoon in the Marais (how cool is that for an opening line?) Teri and…

Merci Madame Killelay

July 19, 2017

One of my favorite teachers, Madame Killlelay, taught high school French. I think she tops…

Nice is nice (PG13)

July 13, 2017

Was a hot day in Nice. I had some down time before the flight back…

Comrades in arms…

July 10, 2017

And legs. And mind, body and spirit. Just whisper “Kowies, Fields, Bothas, Inchanga or Polly…

Triple death by…

July 7, 2017

Seriously? It’s Saturday morning. I mean what kind of message is that suppose to send…

Wump-Wump-Wump

July 6, 2017

Thursday afternoon Dad via text: “send a pic people here want to see” Dad’s internal…

La Decima

July 5, 2017

He’s a god, a modern day god, like Zeus with a tennis racket. And we…

Running single track along the ridge line

I thought about Wayne the other day while out running a muddy single track, in a pouring cold rain, high along the ridge above town.  Wayne is one of those people that inspired me when I first started running all those years ago. It occurs to me that everyone needs a Wayne.

As I ran the ridge I flashed back to a cold September morning in my hometown and the Great Cow Harbor race in Northport, New York.  On that day we stood in the rain at the starting line with a group of runners: banter flowing back and forth, everyone in constant movement trying to calm nerves and fight off the wet, chilly morning.

I was a kid in my early twenties and the running boom was in full swing.  The great thing about it was that all sorts of people, from all walks of life, bonded together over running.  I bet we had twenty people standing together in our little group, all loosely affiliated to each other in some way, probably spanning fifty years in age and a whole range of experience.

While we all showed up for the start from different places and perspectives, we all stood on the line together facing the same challenges: the dreaded James Street hill, a punishing down hill by the LILCO plant, an out and back by Crab Meadow beach and the long run down Main Street to the finish.  Looking around I began to appreciate for the first time what running had to offer.

“Wayne, you going to run New York again this year?” someone asked. “Well, yeah, I keep showing up, it’s a great race, I’ll give the four hour mark another shot, maybe this year, maybe next, I’ll get there, anyway, it’s not about time, it’s all about training.” He sounded humble yet so full of enthusiasm and hope.

I made a mental note.  I could not believe that (a) regular people actually ran marathons (b) a friend of my fathers was running them (c) that he apparently ran a lot of them and (4) he had yet to reach his goal.  I had never looked at running in that context before, as a process, perpetual and ongoing.  Up to that point I just focused on the race at hand and the beer trucks parked down by the dock for the post race party. It had never occurred to me to look beyond that finish line and past the end of Main Street.  Wayne opened the door to possibility.

So here I am.  Twenty-five years later. Still training, up high on a ridge, hanging on to the edge of a slippery single track and pushing hard to ward off a chill.  Why?  Because, it’s all about the training, and I have another marathon coming up in a couple of months, where I will once again try to qualify for Boston.

Maybe this year, maybe next…

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